168 - Who Controls Whom? Who Controls Whom? Sam Soleyn 2/2009 - 'The House of God is not about control. It is about fathers showing the Father to the sons and about being fathers and sons. Orphans are not being brought to maturity, because they are fatherless and going to church won't change that. You must have a spiritual father and belong to a spiritual house.' Read more about 168 - Who Controls Whom?